What I'm Thankful For

                So, I noticed how a lot of people were doing the 30 days of thankfulness posts.  Well, I decided not to try to keep up with the daily updates, but since it is the end of the month of Thanksgiving, I thought I’d share some things I’m thankful for.

                I thankful for this time of year.  I love the lights and the Christmas songs.  The food, the time with family and friends, the reminders that Jesus is the reason we celebrate, and for the kindness that some people decide to share.  Thanksgiving and Christmas always remind me of childhood memories of going to my grandma’s house and my family would gather with my cousins, aunt and uncle and enjoy great food, making Christmas cookies, and presents, of course.  I really miss those times, and I’m thankful that my grandma was there to orchestrate those activities during my years in Arizona.

                I’m thankful for the people I have gotten to know in Oklahoma.  I’m thankful for the friends who have stayed close over the years even though we’ve been separated by distance and lack of time.  I’m thankful for my church and for pastors who are willing to preach the truth directly from the Bible.  I’m thankful for my mom, my dad, and my brother.  It has just been the four of us since we moved here, and although we’ve been through many rough patches, I’m still glad to call them family.

                I’m thankful to have a job.  There are many people who live on much less and can still find things to be grateful for, so I have no right to complain about the things I have been blessed with.  I’m thankful that besides a cold or sinus infection once in a while, I have lived a fairly healthy life.  I still have the ability to see, hear, smell, touch, think, breathe, run, and I could go on…there are many who have lost some of these abilities or never had them in the first place, so I am definitely grateful for 28 years of good health.  I’m also thankful that I was born in a country where we have so many freedoms and privileges.  I’m thankful for the soldiers who have fought to protect those freedoms and those who are still fighting or have given their lives for this country.  I’m thankful for those who guard and protect us within our own borders: the firefighters, policemen, paramedics, nurses, and doctors.  Those who carry out these tasks with honesty and integrity are America’s true heroes. 

                I’m thankful the beauty of nature.  It’s fun observing animals and their quirky habits, especially cats.  I’m thankful for interesting weather patterns and clouds.  Thunderstorms and snow always create an exciting day.  I’m thankful for the beautiful landscapes I’ve observed as I’ve traveled through different states and the pictures I’ve seen from around the world.  God has created such amazing sights to behold.  I’m thankful for the many different ways people have to express themselves.  It’s inspiring to experience the writing, music, painting, or other forms of art that people have made.

                There are so many day-by-day things that I sometimes take for granted.  In my own selfishness, I sometimes forget what I have been given and only focus on what I wish I had.  I'm thankful for the quiet moments to reflect on what God has blessed me with.  I'm thankful that He sent His son to die on the cross and rise again to save us from our sins.  Without God's amazing love and mercy, I would have nothing.  I think taking the time to remember God's love and blessings is the most important part of this season.  May God bless you during this coming month and have a Merry Christmas!

Still Learning

Prayer for the day:

Help me through this day Lord.  Guide me with Your joy and peace. Help me to see Your whispers of encouragement throughout this day.  I'm feeling very overwhelmed and flooded with things. Give me the peace of your presence and empty my mind of these worries, fears, doubts, and troubles.  Empty all my cares and fill my crowded mind with your presence instead.  Please take my desires and feelings into your hands today as I should be surrendering them to You each day.  I don't know what Your plans are or where you're taking me, just help me to trust that they are good.  In Jesus' name, Amen.

            Lately, it seems like trials are just piling up on me.  It's kind of funny, because I was praying before the evening service at church the other day that God would take these trials away.  Then, Pastor Tim preached directly on that subject.  Instead of begging for the trials to go away, we should pray that God would help us learn from our trials and become a stronger Christian because of them.  Needless to say, I felt convicted because I had been searching for a way to escape; I was blaming myself and my failures.  God uses the hard times to bring us closer to Him and to shine His light to others.  He is in charge and He has a plan for each of us.  We have no need to be anxious because He is in complete control of the length and intensity of our trials.  So, if you feel trapped or worried about the future, fear not, for God knows what He's doing.  He wants us to grow and to bring honor to His name.  He will use our circumstances, no matter how tough they seem, to achieve that growth and glory in our lives.

"So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand."  Isaiah 41:10

Fiery Trials

            Do you ever get the feeling that you've been outdone by someone else?  Maybe that's not exactly the right way to phrase it...Has there ever been a time that you have felt down-in-the-dumps depressed and then you come across a story or some news that is far worse than what you are going through?  When you hear about someone whose life is harder than yours, do you feel upset with yourself for feeling down about your own situation?  Or maybe it's the opposite: Do you ever feel like other people have it too easy and barely have any problems?  Of course, there are many different levels of pain both emotionally and physically and each of us handles things differently, so I guess we can't really put our trials on a scale. 

            God knows everything about us, so He knows what we can and cannot handle.  Maybe, when you are in the midst of the fire, you may not feel like you will make it through the flames.  But, if you call out to God for help, He will not let the flames completely consume you.  He discerns and assesses your situation and knows exactly how much oxygen you have left and when to pull you out.  I've heard it said in church that God uses the trials in life to refine us.  Just like pottery, we have to go through the fire to become a finished piece.  1 Peter 1:6-7 says, "In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials.  These have come so that your faith -- of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire -- may be proved genuine and may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed." 

            Christians will all go through trials and tests of their faith.  I'm speaking to myself when I say there is absolutely no reason for us to compare our troubles to one another.  Each person is unique and struggles with different things.  Romans 12:15 says, "Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep."  So, instead of trying to judge what seems fair or who is better off, we should just be encouraging and comforting to one another regardless of our own situation.  And when you feel like the flames are surrounding you, just remember all the blessings God has given you. 

"Because of the Lord's great love we are not consumed, for His compassions never fail."

-Lamentations 4:11

"Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything."

-James 1:2-4

30 Before 30

            I realized after putting up my post last month that it was my 30th post.  The funny thing is that I almost decided to use my 30 Before 30 list for that one.  But, at that time, I had not completed it and I had another idea to write about.  So, to celebrate the 30 posts I've completed and since it is August 30th, I thought today would be just as good a time to share my 30 Before 30 blog...

            A few months before my 28th birthday, I noticed that a few of my friends from college were posting 30 Before 30 lists.  I always liked the idea of making lists of things to accomplish by a certain time, and I have no idea why I never sat down and made this particular list.  I have always had an ongoing Bucket List in my head, but I have never written anything out.  Putting goals in writing is a good step toward accomplishing them, because it holds you more accountable.  So, I started making that list, but I didn't finish it until after I posted last month's blog. 

            Making a list of 30 things to do before I turn 30 was harder than I thought it would be.  I wanted to make my goals reasonable; things that could be attainable in 2 years, so that narrowed down a lot of my Bucket List items.  I also started thinking about things I had done that I would have put on the list if I'd made it sooner.  Before I share my 30 Before 30, I would like to share 15 things I have done in the last 5 years.  Some of them may seem silly, but they were definitely on my mental bucket list.  Believe it or not, I have done 11 of these things in the last 3 years since I turned 25! 

1.      Start a blog :)

2.      Graduate college

3.      Fly in a plane

4.      Visit Florida

5.      Do a 5k run/walk

6.      Go to the Wizarding World of Harry Potter at Universal Studios

7.      Use public transportation to get around a city

8.      See the east coast/Atlantic Ocean

9.      Lead a Bible study

10.  Complete my first year of teaching

11.  Go on a horse-drawn carriage ride

12.  Eat sushi

13.  Go to church camp as an adult counselor

14.  Ride a motorcycle

15.  Take dance lessons

            As you can see, a lot can happen in a short span of time.  I know this hasn't been a very serious or spiritual post so far, but I do believe that God has helped me to see the good in my life over the years.  Sometimes everyday life can seem so dull, but then I remember the things I have seen and done and the things God has lead me through.  I just made a list of the "big" things, but there are so many things God has helped me accomplish since college, since high school, since I moved to Oklahoma, since He saved me at age 11, etc.  Just remember that God is always there with you and He will get you through the trials as well as the good times.  He has plans for you and He will provide ways to accomplish His purpose in your life.  On that note, here is my 30 Before 30 list:

1.      Write a book (at least a children's book)

2.      Finish a 5k in 30 minutes or less

3.      Make a three-course dinner for more than 5 people

4.      Read at least 30 books from a top 100 book list

5.      Host a party

6.      Finish independently reading through a Bible study book

7.      Play through a song on the piano that uses both hands

8.      Have a 5 minute conversation in Spanish

9.      Complete a mission trip or vacation scrapbook

10.  Attend a Broadway show as an adult

11.  Plant and cultivate at least one garden plant

12.  Learn the basics of a third language

13.  Plan a week of meals

14.  Spend 30 minutes a day working on a hobby for a week

15.  Fix and bring a side dish made from scratch to a church dinner

16.  Post a video on Youtube

17.  Visit the Grand Canyon

18.  Invest in a retirement account

19.  Send a photo or article to a magazine

20.  Make up a dance routine

21.  Sew a pair of culottes

22.  Have a spa day

23.  Completely unplug from technology for a week

24.  Pay off loans

25.  Have a Harry Potter movie marathon

26.  Get rid of old stuff and reorganize my room

27.  Volunteer somewhere I never have before

28.  Play paintball

29.  Learn 2 new things to do with my hair

30.  Read through the Bible with commentaries

            Ta Da! Well, there it is. I'll admit that I took some of the ideas from other lists I've seen.  As I mentioned earlier, there are also things I did not include because they were either too hard to accomplish within 2 years or not entirely under my control, such as traveling overseas or getting married.  I will try to keep you updated on things I have finished.

"A goal without a plan is just a wish." - Antoine de Saint-Exupery

"What would you attempt to do if you knew you could not fail?" - Dr. Robert Schuller

"Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and your plans will succeed." - Proverbs 16:3

Just Keep Swimming

            Well, last week I survived my first time of being a church camp counselor.  It was a lot better than I thought it would be.  There was a breeze most of the week to keep the heat down, the youth got along fairly well, and I wasn't forced to participate in any activities I'd rather not do (like chasing chickens).  Our church kids did really well in the activities throughout the week.  The Lindsey Chapel Youth Choir placed first in the choir competition and a boy from our group received the student of the week honor above all the other boys at camp that week.  There was a lot of fun activities and good, clean entertainment, but the highlight of the week was the preaching.  Two kids from our church got saved and that was a great blessing.  I'm sure many of the others made commitments to God throughout the week, including myself.  I thought I'd share a little bit of what God showed me this last week and I hope that you, my readers, can help hold me accountable.

            The theme for the week was "Don't Quit" and they used Galatians 6:9 which says, "And let us not be weary in well doing; for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not."  It is amazing how God can bring the right messages to you right at the point you need to hear them.  I have felt like giving up a lot in the past few years: I've considered quitting my current job multiple times, I have given up on searching for a teaching job each summer after only applying at a few schools, I've considered moving away from a great church, I've allowed myself to get behind on simple tasks like doing the dishes or budgeting, and the list could go on and on.  But, through all the ups and downs, I have felt like God is keeping me where I am for a reason.  Not just at this specific location, but also at my current job and in my current state of singleness.  I still struggle with discontentment, and that is why I have made multiple attempts to get out of these circumstances.  I think that by denying my requests for change, God has been trying to tell me that I need to learn to fully depend on Him.  In everything.  With my job, with my money, with my desire to be married, with my family and friends, there is nothing that God overlooks.  He knows everything about me, and He knows exactly what I need and when I need it.

            There are so many other good points that were made in the messages I heard last week.  Maybe, I will get an opportunity to use some of them in future posts.  For now, I'll focus on one.  As with all the camps and retreats I've gone to, this one came to an end.  Many people go through what they call a "mountain-top experience;" they get all pumped up and ready to make a difference during the event, but then they go home and get hit in the face with reality.  One of the preachers pointed out that just because you make a commitment, it does not mean it will be easy to keep it.  He said that we would be tested; that our faith and resolve would be challenged as soon as we leave.  I expected to be challenged with a bad day at work the day after arriving home.  Instead, my challenge was allergies and congestion.  I didn't see that coming;  I had a sore throat most of the camp week, but I didn't realize it would escalate. Since Friday afternoon, I just started feeling worse and worse, and I spent most of the afternoon in bed on Sunday.  It is very hard to keep a positive attitude, encourage others, and stay motivated to a task when you feel like your head is in a fog and your energy is completely drained.  I tried to stay as positive as possible at work and church, but I felt pretty rundown by the end of the weekend.  Monday did not start out too well either, but now my symptoms have cleared up and I guess this was just a reminder to not take anything for granted, including my health.  I hope that even if I don't feel up to par, I can still strive to have a cheerful countenance, to be an encourager, to seek God's truth and will in my life, and to just keep swimming :)

Words of Encouragement

            So, summer just started and we have already caught a glimpse of the torturous heat it is bringing! I thought we could all use some words of encouragement. I wrote this as a response to an email from a friend a while back. (For those of you involved, don't worry, I edited out certain details and names)

Question( reworded): Do you ever feel like life is passing you by? Like everyone else is living while you are at a standstill?

It was funny that she would ask a question like that, because I was struggling with that very thing and I shared what God was trying to teach me at the time. Here was my response:

In times like this it's very hard to press on, I'm still working on it myself. My pastor has preached on Philippians 4, in verses 11-13 it says: "I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or in want. I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength." In the KJV, verse 11 says: "in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content." I think that our problem is that we're always comparing ourselves with others. We look with longing at what we want and wonder how others can have it when we don't. But even the people who seem to have perfect lives have their own struggles, some are just less visible than others. Everyone has moments when they desire a better life, but the difference is that those who are most fulfilled in life are the ones who take everything to God. Romans 12:12 says: "Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer." This may not be the case for you, but I know that my problem is a problem with joy. I allow depression and negative thoughts to take me down. It gives me this self-pitying, sour attitude and people notice. I have been told multiple times to "smile, life's not that bad." I may not be able to control my circumstances, but I can control my attitude. It's much better to remember that God is always in control, in the good times and the bad, and He knows what you're going through. He uses the tough times to bring you closer to Him. So look at the positive things even if they seem few and far between.

            I've noticed that the subject of encouragement and positive thinking seems to keep coming back to me. I guess I still have a lot to learn and I'm glad to be able to share these things that God is working on in my life. I hope it's not too repetitive :) If you would like more on this subject, look back at these posts:

*Whispers in the Night

*Finding Peace in the Chaos

Entanglement

           A few weeks ago, I was helping my brother remove some vines that had overtaken the bushes outside our driveway.  Those things were tough!  Vines have a way of wrapping themselves around and around bushes, fences, trees, or almost any other standing object.  They grow at a very rapid pace and will eventually choke out the trees or bushes they have entangled.  Pulling out those vines made me think about life.  If we don't catch potentially harmful actions, thoughts, or habits at the beginning (when they first sprout), they can eventually grow into big problems in our lives.  Take television for example: you might let a cuss word slip by once in a while without turning it off, then you allow more and more in until you become calloused to it, and the next thing you know, a word slips out of your mouth and you wonder why you would say such a thing.  Imagine how other sins and addictions start entwining themselves into your life and steadily choke out those moral standards you once held dear.  I think of the parable of the sower in Matthew 13.  The sower had some seeds that he was spreading.  "Other seed fell among thorns, which grew up and choked the plants" (Matt. 13:7).  "The one who received the seed that fell among the thorns is the man who hears the word, but the worries of this life and the deceitfulness of wealth choke it, making it unfruitful" (verse 22).  Concerning ourselves with the things of this world can easily keep us away from the things God wants us to do.  When we allow habits, addictions, worries, or worldly values to control us, we will not be able to pray, witness to others, or worship God as He has called us to do. 

            Jesus said, "I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener. He cuts off every branch in me that bears no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit he prunes so that it will be even more fruitful...no branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me. I am the vine; you are the branches. If a man remains in me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing."  (John 15:1-2,4-5)  So, there is a vine we should allow to flourish.  God uses challenging situations in our lives to help us grow in Him.  Instead of allowing circumstances or sins to overtake us, we should turn back to the One we take root in and allow Him to help us bear fruit in those situations.  Here are a few examples of how people take root in God:

            *"His delight is in the law of the Lord; and on His law he meditates day and night." (Ps. 1:2)

            *"The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life, and he who wins souls is wise." (Prov. 11:30)

            *"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Those who belong to Christ  Jesus have crucified the sinful nature with its passions and desires." (Gal. 5:22-24)

Of course, there are plenty of other examples, but part of taking root in God involves studying these topics on your own.  "Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer," study God's Word, and don't allow yourself to become entangled in the vines of this world!