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Christmas
was a very special time when I was a kid. I would get so excited about opening presents
on Christmas Eve at home and then waking up early the next morning to drive two
hours to Grandma’s house to open more presents. I did not realize the true
value of those moments until after my grandma died. My mom, dad, brother, and I
moved to Oklahoma about a year after Grandma passed away and the next few
Christmases seemed very sad and lonely with just the four of us. I have longed
for another big family Christmas since then. I cannot believe that this
Christmas will mark 20 years since the last time my mother’s side of the family
all gathered together at Grandma’s house. Over the years, I have realized that
the presents were only a small part of the joy of spending the holiday with
family, and my small family has started our own traditions to celebrate each year.
We started using stockings at some point when I was in high school, we had a
few Christmas dinners with friends from the church, my brother and I have taken
care of Christmas dinner for the past couple years, and my dad likes to read
the story of Christ’s birth from the Bible on Christmas day. Christmas has
become special for me again, and it has nothing to do with what I receive. I
enjoy seeing someone’s face light up when I finally find the right gift for
him/her. I enjoy hearing about how God sent His son to the earth as a little
baby in Bethlehem and all the beautiful songs about Him, like this one:
Christmas, especially this year in light of recent world
events, reminds me that we still have hope in Christ. When life looks bleak, I
think of the genuine, innocent joy of a child watching Christmas lights. In the
midst of bad news, I am grateful to find stories of good Samaritans who help
the poor, weary, wounded, and brave. As the Bible says in Ecclesiastes, there
is a time for mourning and sorrow, but there is also a time for joy and
laughter. I find joy in Christmas when I seek time to fellowship with family
and friends throughout the month of December.
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And now, here is a quick list of a few of my favorite things:
Party: my church’s young adult Christmas party is usually the most fun
TV Episode: Garfield's Christmas Special
Christmas food: decorated sugar cookies
Decoration: My snow globe collection
Songs: O Come, O Come Emmanuel and What Child is This?
Tradition: driving or walking through Christmas light
displays
Party: my church’s young adult Christmas party is usually the most fun
TV Episode: Garfield's Christmas Special
Movie: White Christmas
Speaking of a white Christmas, I also really enjoy seeing snow on the ground on Christmas day and I hope to see some this year.
Let it snow! Let it snow! Let it snow!
Christmas Joy Blog Hop Participants:
6. Susan Says
10. Birgit
11. Abba's Lap
Hi, Liz:
ReplyDeleteThank you for hosting this Christmas party. I enjoyed reading all your favorite things and I loved the Hallelujah video. Merry Christmas to you and your family!
Mary
Thanks Mary! I love how they rewrote the lyrics to that song and they played it so beautifully. Merry Christmas!
DeleteIt is about family and celebrating the birth of Christ.
ReplyDeleteFinding that one gift that rocks my wife is a joy every year.
Thanks for hosting the bloghop. Today is my last post until next year as well. Have a Blessed Christmas!
Thanks Alex, this has been fun so far, I may have to do it again :) Merry Christmas!
DeleteMerry Christmas Liz! Thanks for doing this blog hop; looking forward to checking out everyone's entry!
ReplyDeleteIt is hard when we move away from family, especially the first few Christmases. It is good that your family then started developing your own traditions that you carry with you even to this day. I remember our first Christmas away from family my mom sent us homemade cookies that arrived Christmas Eve. That was nice since I'm not a baker, LOL :)
Over the years we too developed traditions that made the holidays special even if there were only the four of us too :)
I saw that video last week on someone's Facebook account. So beautiful!
I hope it is a delightful rest of the season for you :)
betty
Thanks Betty! I enjoy baking when I have the time, but I think the cookies in picture I shared were made by my brother, lol :) Merry Christmas to you and your family!
DeleteO Come Emmanuel is my favorite carol too. I'd never heard it until we sang it in my junior high chorus. And where's the snow? I'm two miles from Lake Ontario and we got nothing.
ReplyDeleteTamara, I'm surprised there isn't snow up there. In my part of Oklahoma, we have had nothing but rain so far and I have decided that I do not like rain in December. We need some snow!
DeleteLOVE the Star Trek NG clip - too cute!
ReplyDeleteThanks Sylvia, I saw it last year and just had to include it somehow :)
DeleteI understand missing a loved one when they were a part of your entire life...and still are. My dad, who loved Christmas, passed away in 1988 and it was so very tough for my mom. I knew to keep Christmas traditions going or else she would give in the the sadness especially at Christmas time. What is wonderful is that we have the memories and the traditions that still make them smile from above. I love White Christmas but It's A Wonderful Life is my Favourite. Love the Star Trek clip:)
ReplyDeleteThanks Birgit! I agree that we need to keep the traditions going instead of allowing sadness to overwhelm us. I still cherish the memories of my grandma's house :)
DeletePeace , Joy and Happiness be yours this Christmas, Elizabeth. Every day is an astounding gift. I love how well spliced together this Star Trek video plays. Its got such a happy buzz.
ReplyDeleteThe same to you, Spacerguy! Whoever made that Star Trek video did an excellent job :)
DeleteMy mom died a few years ago, so I know what you mean about Christmas feeling like a lonely time after that kind of loss. Being with family is more important than gifts.
ReplyDeleteThe TNG version of Let it Snow is one of my favorites! I hope you have a Merry Christmas! Make it so!
L.G., Merry Christmas! Family members are the greatest gifts and I treasure every moment with them :)
DeleteThanks for hosting the hop, Liz. Being with friends and family is what makes Christmas for me, too. I love that version of Hallelujah. Merry Christmas to you.
ReplyDeleteThanks for participating, Susan and it was my pleasure to host :) Cloverton does a beautiful job with their Christmas Hallelujah! Merry Christmas!
DeleteSo much truth in your words about our hope in Christ. This is but one more day to remember what we should never forget on any day.
ReplyDeleteI'll be with family again this year. A lot of travel will be involved but it's worth it. Hopefully the weather will cooperate with our plans.
Arlee Bird
Tossing It Out
Arlee, you're right, we should not forget the hope we find in Christ at any time of the year, not just Christmas. I hope you enjoy your time with family, Merry Christmas!
DeleteWe opened presents on Christmas Eve too. Still do actually. It's the best! :D It's made Christmas Eve special. And Christmas Day we for Santa...I didn't have nearby grandparents.
ReplyDeleteYou have a snowball collection? I'm jealous! You should share a picture of it sometime. :)
Merry Christmas!
You have a Merry Christmas too! Some of my best memories were at my grandma's house also. When my grandpa was still alive, he could play piano and we'd all sing Christmas carols. I do miss those days. You're right, it's not about the stuff...it's about the time spent with those we love.
ReplyDeleteThank you for hosting the blog hop. It was fun. Wishing you a very Merry Christmas!
ReplyDeleteThank you all for visiting and for those who participated in the Christmas Joy Blog Hop! I hope all of you have a wonderful Christmas and a Happy New Year!
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