Victoria, Sam, Aleigh and Lucas with their parents and grandparents |
This past Sunday, February 21, 2016
marked one year since Victoria Turner, two of her siblings, and her maternal
grandparents were in a terrible car accident. Today Victoria, or Tori, as she’s
often called, is a living, breathing miracle. I have shared her story before,
but I haven’t given an update for a while. So, I thought I would share my own
personal reflections of those months last year.
On
February 14, 2015, I had the privilege of babysitting my friend’s three
precious children while she was with her husband at our church’s sweetheart
banquet. I absolutely adore her kids and consider them like family. One week
later, late in the evening, those three children were in a terrible car
accident with their maternal grandparents. The middle daughter, Aleigh, and
grandparents were fine (which was a miracle in and of itself), but the oldest son, Samuel, and youngest daughter,
Victoria, were critically injured. Samuel had a fractured ankle and pelvis and
Victoria had multiple skull fractures and brain injuries; they didn’t think she
was going to make it. When I heard the news the following morning at church I
was struck with such a sense of hopelessness and concern. I had just held Tori
and read to her the previous week, what was I to do? There wasn’t anything I
could do except pray. So that is what I and my church did.
Samuel was released within a couple weeks, but Victoria took a turn for the worst. She got pneumonia due to her weakened immune system, and had to be put on life
support. So, in the weeks following we continued to pray for this precious
two-year-old. There were so many ups and downs during those critical weeks when
many people, including myself, checked the Facebook page repeatedly throughout the day hoping for
good news. Eventually, the miracle we were praying for came and Victoria
survived! After months of therapy, a transfer to a hospital closer to home, and
slowly being weaned off the oxygen support, Tori was finally able to return
home in June. One of many amazing things about all of this is that during her
time on life support, the doctors were not able to treat her skull fractures,
but when they finally took an x-ray they found that the fractures had healed on
their own and no additional surgery was necessary.
This picture was taken the day I went with Victoria, her mom and little brother to her check-up |
She is still undergoing
speech therapy, but she communicates her needs fairly well with her limited
vocabulary. I have had some opportunities to observe her at play, I even got
to let her sit in my lap and read to her again, and I think she seems just as
bright and eager to learn as ever. I was watching her run and play with another
three-year-old at church the other day and every time she laughed or smiled I was
reminded of what a miracle and a testimony her young life has already been to
so many people.
My
church was strengthened in prayer during that time. We came together as one
body and the power of prayer was shown in a way that most of us will never
forget. And we were not alone. The church has somewhere between 200 and 300
members, but the Pray for Tori and Sam Facebook page has over 9000 likes. It
amazes me that so many people beyond our church were willing to pray and show support for
Victoria and her family, and all of those lives were impacted by this tragedy.
Prayer is powerful, but things may not always turn out the way we want them to.
Even if things had gone the other way with Tori, her parents said they would
still believe that God works out the good in all things. Of course, it is
better to always be in prayer, whether we are in the midst of disaster or
delight, but as incomplete works in progress, we probably lapse in our prayer
time once in a while, especially if things are going smoothly. Just remember that God is always just a
prayer away and He wants to hear all of your needs, your desires, your worries,
your fears, your praise, and your worship.
You can find more information about Victoria's journey on the Pray for Tori and Sam Facebook page, and the pictures I shared in this post are from that page. I have also written these posts about her: Prayer, Encouraging Updates, and Victory in Jesus.
A living miracle indeed! God is good, all the time. And amazing so many outside your church joined in prayer. For all the evil in the world, God is still present in the lives of so many people.
ReplyDeleteAlex, it still amazes me how much we felt God's presence during that time. We too often forget that God is always with us.
DeleteWhat a sweet family and she's just precious! Such a wonderful answer to prayer and a great testimony to the power of prayer. So true too that if it had been a different outcome, God would still have made beauty from ashes, no matter how painful the journey to get there. We often say "the only thing I can do is pray" but that is the best thing to do :)
ReplyDeletebetty
Very true, Betty, prayer is the best thing we can do! And yes, Tori is a precious little girl :)
DeleteYour family is so nice. I am so happy that you have finally found peace. Pray and He will hear you.
ReplyDeleteBless you,
David.
Thank you, David. I'm not related to them, but they are a part of my church family and dear friends of mine.
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